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Regression In Progress or NOT

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  Disclaimer : I know very well about Men's egos yet I am taking this risk because I have a point. So if you would like to read it, please proceed because this  is not written to hurt anyone for sure. Additionally Adam, Eve and Lilith are the most popular and Biblical reference names of first man and his two wives which would be discussed towards the end of this article. To all religious people out there, if you do not have a free mind to think about the reality which I would be describing there, you may omit that part. I mean at the end of the day everyone needs an enlightenment and principles to live with and any religion is just a tool to set that in every persons mind is my belief system so I am not against any religion however I do not prefer to follow anything blindly. 👍 This article should have been written 2 weeks back but if we haven't forgotten about #PriyankaReddy incident already, that incident triggered me to write this article. Then when I saw ju...

Balance

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  I am not going to make a big article about this topic. So, this is going to be a brief one. What is balance to you ? What is the relevance of that term in your life ?   For me balance is the equilibrium or the synchronicity which exists in this Universe on a broader level and on a personal level it is my focus and control I have over my mind which includes everything that a mind can control. For example, your thoughts, your emotions, your discipline, your actions, your words,etc. Everyone seeks a balance in their life, but what kind of balance are they seeking depends mostly on their age as well as their priorities. So, to begin with, lets consider this Universe. Living and non living co-exist in this Universe and we are the living ones. Surprisingly, Universe has brought balance to itself even in the non living realm.  If you have heard of the five elements concept, you might know what I am talking about. Fire, Water, Air and Earth and the highe...

PTSD - Post Traumatic Stress Disorder

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 I would like to begin this note by thanking all of my family, friends and my colleagues who I would like to address as my extended family. 🙏 I am indebted for life to be surrounded by you all and the constant support and care I receive from all of you have been my everything 🙏 Trauma : A psychological and emotional response to an event or a series of events that are distressing or harmful. These events are typically perceived as threatening, dangerous, or life-altering. Trauma can result from various experiences; to name a few Physical Injury, Emotional or Psychological Stress, Natural Disasters, War and Conflict, Loss or Bereavement, Serious Illness, Violent Crime, etc. Trauma can have a profound impact on an individual's mental, emotional, and physical well-being. The effects of trauma can vary widely from person to person, and not everyone who experiences a potentially traumatic event will develop trauma-related symptoms. Common responses to trauma may include feelings...

Generation Gap and Culture Difference Issues on Social Media

 Pretext:  During one of our everyday video calls between me any son, my 7 year older boy suddenly in-quested this one thing.." Mamma do you know what is bubble". I asked him what is "bubble" ? He replied to me that his friend's (Ist Std B) lover (Ist Std C) spoke to him about how girls have bubbles and boys don't have bubbles. On further questioning he told me that it is an internet slang. I did a bit of research on the same but I could not find this slang at all. So yeah I must admit whatever he meant by this bubbles thingy which distinguishes women from men is new to me.. I know how everyone says internet is not a safer place for kids and why they should stay away from it. Yes, it is true.. so lets go back to the 80s or 90s when internet was hardly or not at all in use.. Impossible huh ?  Yes, that is also true.. 😁 Generation Gap and Culture Difference Issues on Social Media.. Awareness.. The generation gap and cultural differences can manifest on social...

Lets keep it clean from now on.. Social Media "Cleanliness" Campaign

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  Recently I went on a trek to a national park in the far north. It felt so good and spirited me back up because with each pace I took in nature it felt like I was being replenished with fresh energy.. But what was not so refreshing is the sight we got to see on the way. Throughout the trail, both sides of the trail had scattered thrown out chocolate and candy wrappers, emptied chips packets, polythene covers and much more. This is the mountains I am talking about, much lesser taken roads.. Why would human interaction or activity thoughtfully decide to dump non-biodegradable waste on fertile land ?  This came up more than once in our interactions on the way. However one thing me and my friends decided to do was to put back the wrappers and emptied chips packets and even orange peels back to our backpacks so that we can dump it in a proper waste bin on the way. God knows whether it would be emptied somewhere in the forest or would go to recycling at all.  Returning back to...

Bimla Dei

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 What is God to you ?  I know there are many belief systems which I would never dare to question not.. because I believe in the power of faith for sure. However, God to me is good people who believe in good deeds and who are at it every day bettering not just lives of themselves but also others.  Recently, I got this opportunity of visiting the Shesh Nag temple aka Balo Nag temple in Bahu. After almost a 30 minute walk you reach this clearing on top of a hill. Exquisite and thought through architecture of the temple is a puller for sure. However, what you need to understand about this place is that what binds it together is the deep rooted faith of the people living there in the natural forces which protects and safeguards them. Every tree and every thread which binds each of them felt like hushing of the same. faith.. believe.. I really cant wait to be there once to attend their holy festival whenever that would be conducted.    But what really pulls me towards...

Normalize "Its not okay.."

It is important to explicitly state that certain behaviors are not okay in the workplace for anyone, regardless of gender, to establish a clear and inclusive organizational culture. This applies to both men and women.   Why?   Promotes a Safe and Inclusive Environment: Clearly stating that certain behaviors are not acceptable fosters a safe and inclusive workplace for everyone. This includes creating an environment where all employees feel respected, valued, and free from harassment or discrimination. Sets Expectations: Clearly communicated policies and guidelines set expectations for behavior in the workplace. This helps employees understand what is considered acceptable and unacceptable conduct, promoting a professional atmosphere. Prevents Harassment and Discrimination: Explicitly stating that certain behaviors are not okay helps prevent and address instances of harassment and discrimination. This is crucial for creating a workplace where individuals are treate...